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How to Start a Morning Routine That Works: From a Non-Morning Person

A few weeks ago I completed my last business coaching session — if you need help leveling up in your business, Fernanda is incredible! I’ve dubbed her my Aligned Coach because it’s in a way that’s aligned with your values and serving others through your talents.

In that last session we did a guided visualization. While standing in an open field with God, I asked Him: “What do I need to do today to get to the end as my best self?” He responded: “Give me your first fruits.” I was blown away. For a long time I’ve wanted to be that person who woke up early, spent time with Him and started my day energetically and with intention. I was reminded that when we commit our time to Him, He expands our time. I don’t know how He does it, but in all the years I’ve walked with Jesus, I know He’s able!

After years of trying. I’ve finally committed to prioritizing my mornings and sharing here what’s worked for me. If you're like me and mornings feel like a struggle, but you aspire to become a "morning person," I’m here to tell you it's entirely possible. The secret isn’t in a complete overhaul, but in a few intentional tweaks that make waking up early less daunting and even enjoyable. Here’s how to set up a morning routine that’s easy to stick to and rewarding.

1. Set Yourself Up for Success the Night Before

A successful morning routine starts the evening before. I have a practice I like to call "putting my home to bed." This means I spend a few minutes tidying my space, making sure the kitchen is clean, and resetting my common areas. It’s tempting to skip this step and leave dishes for the morning, but I remind myself how refreshing it feels to wake up to a tidy home. An orderly space can truly make a difference in how I start my day, setting me up for a calm, focused morning.

How to "Put Your Home to Bed":

  • Wipe down kitchen counters and load or run the dishwasher.

  • Tidy up the living room—fluff pillows, fold blankets, and clear any clutter.

  • Lay out anything you might need for the next morning, like your workout clothes or a journal.

This simple evening ritual reduces morning stress and makes it easier to ease into my day with a positive mindset.

2. Start Small: Adjust Your Alarm Gradually

If the idea of waking up an hour earlier sounds dreadful, start small. Set your alarm just 15 minutes earlier than your usual wake-up time and stick with this for three days. You’ll be surprised by how quickly your body begins to adjust! On day four, you may even find yourself waking up naturally a few minutes before the alarm.

It’s also essential to go to bed at a reasonable hour to make this work. I aim to be in bed by 10 PM to wake up by 5 AM. Trust me, I’ve tried jumping straight to an hour-earlier wake-up and failed miserably. By making gradual shifts, you’re giving yourself a chance to adjust without the burnout that comes from drastic change.

3. Decide What Matters Most in Your Morning

What would make your morning feel fulfilling? The beauty of a morning routine is that it’s entirely customizable to your needs. Maybe you want a few quiet moments for journaling, a skincare routine that feels indulgent, or a quick workout to wake up your body.

My morning routine typically includes:

  • Non-toxic skincare – A little self-care that makes me feel refreshed.

  • Quiet reflection – I start my day with a moment to read my Bible.

  • Movement – Sometimes it’s a quick stretch, sometimes a short workout.

  • Warm lemon water – A comforting way to wake up my system.

  • Optional work – If I wake up extra early, I sometimes use the time to get a head start on work, but only if it feels right.

Choose a few simple, enjoyable practices that leave you feeling grounded and energized.

4. Use a Simple Morning Framework

To make this process easier, here’s a simple framework to get you started:

Mindful Moments

Spend five minutes in quiet reflection. You could meditate, pray, or simply breathe deeply. A little stillness in the morning can go a long way in setting a positive tone for the day.

Tidy a Small Space

Clear one small area, like your bedside table or bathroom counter. Not only does this make your space feel lighter, but it also builds momentum for a productive day ahead.

Simplify Your Essentials

Gather only the essentials you need for your morning—whether it’s skincare products, a journal, or your workout gear. This reduces decision fatigue and makes it easy to start your day effortlessly.

Remember, Progress Over Perfection

As a recovering perfectionist, I’ve had to learn the importance of small, manageable changes. A morning routine doesn’t have to be elaborate to be effective. Start with one or two of these ideas, then gradually build on them. The goal is to create a routine that feels supportive, not overwhelming.

Minimalist Tip:

Just 15 Minutes — Set yourself up for success by setting your alarm just 15 minutes earlier than normal for the first 3 days.

With just a few intentional tweaks, you can start to enjoy mornings instead of dreading them. By putting your home to bed, gradually adjusting your wake-up time, and choosing a few meaningful morning rituals, you’ll find yourself feeling more grounded and ready to face the day.

One small step at a time.

Ready to Transform Your Mornings?

Here’s to mornings that feel calm, joyful, and completely doable! Come share your morning routine or tips over on IG — I love to be inspired!

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